Monday, August 14, 2006
Rejection...
First and foremost, i wanna give assurance to Daya that i won't blurt whatever u told me to anybody. I quit being a hypocrite a long time ago. I've been there, done that..I lost a friend and i gain nothing..haha..learnt from my lesson already..
Now start on my entry..hmm..actually kinda told daya that i would be posting an entry about rejection. I think almost everyone have got rejected by somebody..But how do you handle rejection? Some take the "once bitten,twice shy" path and some take the "move on" path. Some don't even dare face rejection. I have felt that. It hurts but move on. And its easier said than done. I mean its better to tell the somebody that u like him/her. Yes, i know that its difficult. So many "What ifs". But its worth it. You wont know what will be the response right. And maybe you dont wanna make known your feelings because what if you tell him/her, you might even lose him/her as a friend...So you rather take the safer path which is dont tell and just be beside her/him until one day, somebody beats you to declaring your feelings. Wont it hurt? I mean it beats the purpose. It will hurt more cause i know the feelings..
Im entering this post based on real life story..chey wah..no lah i mean i observed that some of my friends are not able to face this situation and i admit me too..sometimes only..But pls dont take it to heart ok..haha..okaylah..Kgo ponder about it..bye..!!!